So I was asked by a certain someone to write about childish people so that's gonna be the topic I shall write today! These are just my views and what I think!

I don't really know much of my friends who are childish actually, nor do I have anything against childish people. But sometimes what they do can really affect others in ways they think that it doesn't. Hmmm.... Usually I think this happens most of the times in secondary schools. Most of the stories I hear are from people much much younger and those who are childish at a older age, maybe just haven't changed their certain habits maybe. Well, the usual stories are surrounding the issues where they do stuff that make them seem like a bad kid and make them look cool and they go around saying that they did this and that even to people they are not close with, they just want people to know what they did. Some of these things they do are like, let's see... I've heard they ran away from home ( Obviously they went home after awhile. I don't see how is that running away from home but ya....) then maybe they smoke or they did smth, or went somewhere. I mean these are fine, like people who smoke, I don't really see them going around saying omg you know I smoke? LOL. Like seriously.. if you're just doing it to be part of the "cool group " of the world, you have a wrong view of it. I've also heard about people doing stupid stuff when they're in school uniform. Okay, i mean if it was me, I might have done stupid stuff also but then, as long it doesn't cause the community or the crowd any issue or make them look down on the school. I mean I represent something, the only thing they can notice about you is by the uniform. But they won't think about you as a person, but they will think of you as what you represent which is the school. They'd think that the school has kids like that who does stupid stuff. Another kind of childish behavior is, when they did something they know they did, and they totally deny everything that has to do with them. I mean come on, you started it just accept your mistake. It's better than hiding the truth, I mean like obviously if people already confront you, they already know the truth, and then you just deny it. That just makes you look bad and cowardly. Especially when it has something to do with friendship and relationships. You should just really say the truth and well, try to amend the issue. Even if you can't at least the friend knows you try to do smth, and maybe after sometime things would be back to normal again. But hiding everything when the person knows it, will make that person keep a wrong image of you for the rest of his life until you do smth about it.

I also feel that sometimes even in an relationship some people can be rather childish, *By my experience*. I just feel that if you're not even serious about being in a long term r/s then don't even go around looking for someone to fill that part of your heart for a moment of time then dump him/her. Even worse is still being in the r/s but yet not showing any kind of affection for the person, or well treating that person like he/she is just someone you usually text. Then when you are tgt with this person, you don't make this person people that he/she is the one you depend on. People who always choose to do other stuff that obviously isn't important at all compared to the plans you had before. What's the point of a relationship if you are going to be like that right? I find that kinda childish and selfless. There's just so many other ways they can be childish by character. But these are what I know for now. But well, it doesn't matter when the person can be childish at times, but yet also do the right things when times are appropriate. That i'm sure it can be put up with. But if the person is doing that everyday and every moment. I don't think the other party would want to continue the relationship or the person just wouldn't act the same with you anymore. It would be good if he/she points out where you are childish or doing things that isn't right, but if you do not make effort to change, that I believe is a big no-no especially when it's something that makes you into a better person. I believe we all have been childish at points of our life. But we must always know how to change or make up for what we have done. That's the only way you'll be able to learn and grow up step by step. Everything takes time to learn. If we do have people who we think are childish in a way, I think we also should help them by telling them nicely in the appropriate time, showing love and concern on how they should not do what they do, and teach them what's the right thing to do and how to do it so that they will know that you're just looking out for them. That's all I have for tonight! :D

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