Well, to my lady friends out there, please if you're the type that like to put boys on those little waiting list of yours, i'm not saying it's wrong, it's okay but if you're sure that you don't like that person, please tell that poor boy, and don't lead him on and make him suffer if you're just going to tell him no in the end. Even if you think there's a possibility that you guys might be together, at least show him signs to let him know he's not waiting for something he can't get. It really feels like crap honestly, it haunts him night and day, when he's in school/work almost all times of his life. But it's different if you both know that you guys like one another, then waiting wouldn't be a problem at all because at least you both know in the end it's going to be alright. I'm sorry if you don't agree with my views, but these are just my opinions and the way I see it. In the end, life's short, you'll never know when the person might be gone, you'll never know if the person is the right one, and when it's too late do not regret. I believe sometimes some guys are actually very nice at the start, but because of some girls who just make use of them, and then they just can't give a shit about being true to love anymore and then they change, and then they say he's bad, and he's just useless, but to be honest it's not his fault. I've seen enough nice guys turn bad because of girls who just chase drama-like boys that they will never find. If you're one of them, please don't do it. You actually change people and hurt them, while searching for something that isn't true. I'm not going to elaborate between those drama-ish and real life love. It's not about fame, looks nor money, but Faith, Love and Trust.